Don't Let The Holiday Blues Get You Down

The holiday blues could be the start of major depression. Here's how to cope.

I’ll have a blue Christmas without you,

I’ll be so blue just thinking about you.

Elvis Presley aside, the holiday blues are nothing to sing about.

For many the holidays are not a time of cheer, but of dread, exhaustion and even depression.

What distinguishes the holiday blues from cases of severe depression are not the
symptoms – they’re similar – but the duration.

For those who are vulnerable, the blues tend to arrive just before the
holidays – in anticipation – and fade when the calendar turns. The symptoms
generally are a lack of interest in usually pleasant activities, sleep
disturbances, appetite changes, agitation, anxiety, feelings of guilt or
difficulty in concentrating.

The causes  may be loneliness from the loss of loved ones, a hectic pace of shopping, entertaining and decorating that leads to exhaustion, strained family dynamics that make get-togethers want-to-avoids, or the financial worries that result from overspending. There can be physical causes, the draggy feeling from
consuming too much alcohol, indulging in too many sweets and skipping exercise.
Not to mention the psychological effects of shorter days and daylight, called
seasonal affective disorder.  Of course, in San Diego we are spared the full-blown cabin fever of colder climes.

Don’t let the holiday blues get you down. There are ways to cope.  Here are a few:

--Keep your expectations modest. Don’t fall into a trap of what holidays are supposed to be or how you are supposed to feel.

--If traditional activities are a cause for dread, do something different this year.

--Pace yourself. Forget the unimportant stuff. So what if all the decorations don’t
get put up? Skip a party if you’d rather not.

--Delegate. Don’t try to do it all yourself. Besides, other people often want to help and be involved.

--If you are lonely, try volunteering some time to help others.

--Avoid the blahs with a walk to reduce stress, a glass or two less of alcohol, and only a nibble of the goodies that produce sugar highs.

--Keep track of spending. Post-holiday bills can be a real downer.

--Avoid the scrooges and grinches – try to spend time with positive people.

--Don’t compare past and current holidays. When you compare, you despair.

--Be careful about resentments related to holidays past. Declare an amnesty with a relative or friend over frictions of the past.

--Take a breather and make some quiet time for yourself.

White, a registered nurse with a master’s in public health, is general manager of advocacy programs for McGregor and Associates of San Diego.

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Eric November 27, 2012 at 02:00 AM
blues??... *busts out guitar*
One Voice November 27, 2012 at 02:26 AM
Take a trip to the mall and watch the little kids standing in line anticipating seeing Santa Claus, if that doesn't make you smile nothing will.
Constant Comment November 27, 2012 at 02:36 AM
Get yourself a copy of Bing Crosbys' 'A White Christmas' and watch it when it comes on TV. Also see 'It's a Wonderful Life' and 'Miracle on 34th Street' and 'Texas Chainsaw Massacre'. ( I just threw that last one in there.) }~)
Ed Sorrels November 27, 2012 at 02:54 AM
Feeling bad ? Take a moment and think about our son's and daughters in those hostile far away land's and what they face each and every day and night ! Then put a smile on your face for you have it great, safe and well fed and warm in your bed this Christmas. But take the time to say a prayer for them ! Then feeling so lucky go shopping for your loved ones !
Daniel Woolfolk November 27, 2012 at 03:49 AM
I love it!


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